10-31-2007, 02:20 PM
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Piggy Bank
Join Date: Jul 2006
Posts: 59
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What kind of abuse is this, what can I do?
Go see a counselor. This isn't something that can be addressed here. You are probably going to get a bunch of answers telling you he is a jerk and you should do x y or z. First go to counseling and get yourself strong and in a position to know what to do. If you have to ask someone else, you need help that yahoo answers just can't give you. Good luck. I am praying for you.
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10-31-2007, 02:20 PM
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Greenhorn
Join Date: Jul 2006
Posts: 12
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What kind of abuse is this, what can I do?
He's treating you like crap, and you're letting him. Tell him to get off his sorry butt and help you. Also, he should not be doing these things without your consent. Personally, I'd end the relationship. Sitting around and having your wife work themselves to death is NOT the way it should be.
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10-31-2007, 02:20 PM
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Greenhorn
Join Date: Jul 2006
Posts: 16
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What kind of abuse is this, what can I do?
he is trying to find a reason to cheat, to justify his own actions. he is the one who has no respect for u, or the marriage. it seems u both are traveling down a different path, and want different things. he is making excuses to avoid being who he should be. he is immature, a real man would be cutting the grass, and not taking marital as setts without first discussing it. sounds as if u are doing everything u can to make the marriage work, and he is doing nothing. personally i would not want to be in a marriage like this, just too much to deal with. if u have no kids than what is keeping u with him? he has nothing going for him and every positive thing u do he seems to undo. theres no future here, just hurt.
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