Not enough "trust but verify" or CYA done before friends marriage, now finding possible bigamy ,other lies.
Man stated he had been married before, caught wife with some one else, divorced her.- turns out he was defendant.Other statements made did not compute..Caught him in big lie with me-not mentioned to my friend- so quietly did some checking ..<br />Has assured my friend if he were to die first- does have verified heart condition, she would be "well taken care of "<br />In the divorce decree from first wife, states husband is to maintain term life insurance policies currently in place..company paid... with the daughter of this marriage named as beneficiary on these two and on a universal life the daughter is to have upon 21st birthday..<br />Another marriage is on record after this decree and before marriage to my friend..no record of a divorce -at least in home state.<br />So because of this court order , he would not have ability to re-assign insurance to my friend -correct ?<br />Also if their marriage not legal, then of course, she would not receive an annuity as his widow ?<br />Other lies ????<br />Agree, my g.dau`s beneficeries on policy that has nothing to do with my partner and our personal arrangemeents.<br /><br />This person`s history he brought to the marriage is developing hole`s big enough to drive a Mac thruck thru..obvious not just to me, but other friends who care for this woman too..borrowing money she is not aware of, finance matter not taken care of...lies about place of employment for 20+yrs and why "retired/disabled " now.<br />He brought very little to this marriage;an outstanding personality and lots of charm !<br />As to why my concern ? She and I worked together on projects off and on 10yrs+ and over time became friends and part of each other`s family and continue to do so. FYI She has stated that she knows all is not right and that any materiael I discover, file away until she asks for the documents.<br />Other friends are distancing themselves after a burn or emberassment by this man or possibility of being caught up in his schemes !<br />Not a will...divorce decree named daughter<br />beneficiary...that is NOT the problem, but that fact is just another lie he has told.<br />No, she did not marry him for insurance, had been single a number of years, by choice-but seems she maried a man who does not exist !<br />
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10-31-2007, 01:35 PM
